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Not even close. It took about four seconds for me to confirm that, as I did some preliminary poking around in response to your question.
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In addition to the possibly legitimate? I don't know, it looks a little sketchy " Black Women Love Italian Men" blog, an initial search revealed a good-size handful of inquiring minds asking the non-experts at Yahoo questions similar to yours.
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Anyway, just ignore. Have fun! Me. And I thought your question was an interesting one that required a more authoritative take, especially because given recent headlines, the answer to "Why do Italian men love black women so much" very clearly isn't "Because all black people are warmly embraced by all Italians.
Quite the opposite. The country has had more than its fair share of bigotry and hate-fueled incidents over italian man LOVES BLACK women past few months.
That you're asking mah question back in the states is also relevant in light of the old racism- and colorism-fueled narrative about black women getting shunned in the dating department. This was most recently brought to our attention by this guy who announced that he would never date italian man LOVES BLACK women black woman. It was a reminder of some of the depressing data about how race plays out in online dating and the real-life attitudes that likely reflects.
So I did some real research. Why, in Italy, girls hookup Rochester Minnesota all places in the world, do we keep hearing that black women are not only welcomed italian man LOVES BLACK women but also seemingly put on some sort of a pedestal? Admittedly, I started writing this response assuming that I'd end up speaking to someone who had authored a book on this phenomenon or studied interracial relationships across the world, or at least had some well thought-out theory about Italy's specific culture and history maybe something to italoan with Ethiopia?
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I was expecting something that could explain why what appears to be widespread bigotry didn't touch black women in this area or, maybe it did, but just manifested in some type of hypersexualization way.
So I put my feelers out to my normal Race Manners experts and to the Internet more broadly and got …. I posted an inquiry on Facebook: Seriously, if there is some agreed-upon explanation italian man LOVES BLACK women official analysis that I'm missing, let me know on Twitter. I'm still curious. So I don't know how to explain that "It's true" to your friends except that, well, it's true italian man LOVES BLACK women you.
And shouldn't that be enough? What's with the skepticism?
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And do we ever make people explain the ihalian going on? In fact, it always seems to get messy to try to explain these things with broad cultural theories.
Whether it's a black man who marries a white womana white guy with a thing for Asian girlsthe italian man LOVES BLACK women in a May-December romance or simply members of an "opposites attract" couple, it rarely goes well when you try to tell people their relationships are somehow influenced by cultural forces beyond their individual connections.
Here's a theory: Implicit in your comments "Oh my God, Italian men loved me so. I'd never seen anything like it.Sexy Dating In Hemet California
It was the best thing ever! So much better than here! What's wrong with you? Cue the "I don't want to feel like a stereotype" defensiveness on their.
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And on that note, you are going to be forever frustrated if you make it your mission to convince large swaths of people to change their preferences or the way they express them, so probably just give up that bit. My best guess is that this defensiveness is what you and your buddies are really bumping heads. Another thought that's just a gut feeling: Maybe one of them likes you and hasn't been able itlaian italian man LOVES BLACK women it and is frustrated that you woen picked up on attention abroad?
So I don't think there's any itxlian that wome have to get your male friends on board as huge cheerleaders for the experience italian man LOVES BLACK women had in Italy.
But if you really want to talk about it, I would try to do it in a way that doesn't have undertones of accusation and doesn't emphasize that people in their demographic have fallen down on the flirting job by comparison. If they still can't believe what you're saying, just move on in the conversation, but also maybe to Italy — don't rule that out! A true friend isn't going to react with stubborn disbelief to the idea that you italixn romantic connections, even if they were connections with people from another culture or on another continent.
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