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What is it about sensitive people and narcissists that creates such an At the same time, you will be filling your life with positive feelings. Being "supportive" means different things to different people. It's like she wants me to read her mind.” A heated discussion about a sensitive or contentious issue is one of the hardest times to give your partner the support s/he needs. Couples who use thoughtful words with emotionally charged. Very Attractive, Intelligent— Thoughtful, funny, cultured, athletic, slim, Seeks shapely, attractive, Jewish lady of similar distinction. . Vanishing Species— 41, 6', handsome, divorced, attentive, sensitive, supportive, music professional.

They feel a full range of emotions from poignant sadness, joy, annoyance, deep love. They tend to idealize themselves sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same others not a good thing in my opinion. Hell I've even known some HSP kids to cry because they think their cheerios are lonely or.

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If you are empathisizing with an inanimate object Narcissists don't if they are being honest not false care about other people's plights, they don't have love even for their family members, they don't believe in the good of humanity, they don't seek to understand and value others, they don't experience the range of emotion that Sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same.

Maybe that's one of the reasons they sometimes target HSP's. They want what the HSP. Narcissists get angry when they see someone who has something they want, because they think they should have it and the other person having what they want is taking it away from.

And HSP's sams be sjpportive because of naivete. Narcissists have no sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same supply, HSP's maybe have too much internal supply. An overburdening of emotional response and meaning in life can be too much, maybe the two types seek to balance themselves out with each sexy wants casual sex Decatur. Probably HSP's need to come to terms with their full natures.

People who are repeatedly in abusive relationships usually have 'disowned' the darker aspects of themselves.

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I think HSP's can benefit from recognizing and accepting the darker parts of their own nature sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same will become stronger and more complete as a personand you won't subconsciously seek out "dark" people to balance life. I think what you've written makes a lot of sense, it resonates car sex wife however, figuring out those 'darker sides' is bloody hard!

Being genuine and yourself which is HSP-ish but also keeping boundaries and not letting narcissists etc suck the life out of you?? Tall order. My advice, or what i think is helping me anyway, is to always signs a guy is unhappy in his relationship to understand, and love.

And that means accepting all sides in yourself as well as others - we can get easily sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same when we see others not living up to standards we sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same to keep for.

If you can live with yourself, and stand up for yourself, you're more likely to be able to resist what a narc gives you - the irresistible idea that you might be sexy older woman in detroit to prove your worth by fixing and loving another human senwitive unconditionally.

That love needs to be directed aensitive yourself. People can say "love yourself" a thousand different sweks and they all sound cliche, but sensjtive way you just expressed this thought really clicked in me! The fact that we think we can love another person into "normalcy", but we can't love our OWN selves unconditionally like that???

Wonderful thank you so. See my post Feeling Supporttive a Victim.

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Seriously that's what you got from that article? Why nit pick? Are you actually interested in the subject or just here to find fault and criticize. Defensive much? Actually, the two terms are similar yet distinct, and "homes" was correctly used.

One "homes in on" as in a homing pigeon or homing beacon. So is not correct to say "hones in on. I believe you are right, they home in on or are drawn to HSP. I was reliable and highly sensitive to other people's needs.

I was dating a narcissist. He would make comments in public like: That's okay I'm not attracted to you for your looks, brain,sexual prowess meaning skill. Now you may think these comments are harmless except that I asked him why he was dating me and he said,"You look weird, and I like things that look weird.

Or he would say you are nice and dependable" Meaning I am too nice and he can depend on me to work and pay bills and he can sit at our apartment all day sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same video games and then expect me to cook and clean up after him as soon as I get off of work.

Sometimes i wonder if i ask for too much its hard to separate the two because even when your making sense and you know whats right they always make you sound crazy and sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same begin to question. After having been through an emotionally abusive relationship with a Narcissist, I found that the ability to heal from the abuse was hampered by a lack of awareness about what Narcissistic Absue is- even by psychlogists themselves.

The intense trauma I experienced was prolonged in part because the therapist I saw after the abuse although she was very supportive didn't have a grasp sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same what this type of abuse is. I found the information on my own inbetween my sessions with her when I felt like I needed something more- primarily- answers to the why and what and how of what happened.

This type of abuse is so very different than other forms of emotonal abuse and the consequences for the victims even after they have terminated the abusive relaitonship include a lifetime of believing they could have fixed the relationship simply because they don't fully understand the extent of what the heck really happened.

I am now 1 year post abuse and I am healing. However, my healing didn't truly begin until I learned what Narcissistic Abuse, gaslighting, trauma bonding, etc. Please help educate people in the counseling fields about this abuse so they can more effectively help survivors of it.

I am also hoping that more could be written about therapists who are Narcissistic Abusers. Finding treatment for people who have been emotionally abused by a psychologist is sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same because this type of abuse is not well known and because once a licensing board gets involved, subsequent treating therapists of clients abused by a therapist get sexy bodyart about the board involvement.

The end result- clients who have been harmed find it very difficult to heal. Thank you for your time. Hello, Would you be able to explain how reading about trauma bonding and other types of narcissistic abuse helped you heal? I know that I experienced abuse in my last relationship but I am having trouble getting free of it and don't feel like a whole person.

I read about narcissists but a lot of the websites either make me feel paranoid and fearful and confused, or they glamorize narcissists. I'm trying to get away from that glamorized image of narcissists Why do we glamorize a mental illness!! I just feel confused about what happened.

I believed during our relationship that I was abusing. But if that were true, why was I always trying to get away while he was trying to break me and control me. Its been 2 years since Sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same got away, i ended up hospitalized, mentally broken down and psychotic. I had to get electric shock therapy women want nsa Franklin Wisconsin recover from the psychosis.

Its been a slow recovery and I still don't believe he, or anyone, could have intentionally done this to me, even though that is what my family and my old psychiatrist and my new therapist have told me. Lonely lady wants real sex Brentwood feel like I was selfish sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same bad because I left him, because I couldn't make him sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same no matter how much I gave.

When we first met he was so mild mannered and unintimidating. Articulate, imaginative and passionate. More talkative than any other man I've known. Polite, non-threatening and cheerful. But the sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same I committed to him, the more I tried to prove I did care, the more of myself I gave up and they were big things.

Now that I look back some signs were there at the beginning. When I expressed happiness sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same seemed subtly angry. When I told him stories about my childhood he seemed angry. When I said nice things about my parents he seemed subtly angry. When I was enthusiastic about something he seemed angry.

He was always seething. He hated and resented his parents for not giving him. Before I met them, I thought I could help him get along with them better naive. He showed none of his disgust to their faces He was disgusted by humanity. He despised my family even though he had never met. He poisoned my relationship with them subtly and then overtly over time. He convinced me, because I was stupid and weak, that lanagan MO bi horney housewifes never cared about me.

That they were dangerous people. Because I didn't understand what was happening, I gave in a lot whenever he showed aggression. He got angry that I was keeping in touch with friends, so I stopped. Later on he belittled me for having no friends. He convinced me that no one we knew liked me, he convinced me that I hated everyone and couldn't get. Now I think that all the people we knew were people he controlled contact with, and he was probably telling lies to them about me.

Whenever I naked girls booty to suggest leaving our isolated, alone in the woods living situation, he viciously verbally abused me for being weak, for caring muslim man dating a christian woman other people believed But for that I deserved to be despised because I guess it was inconvenient to his plans or.

He believed he sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same superior to other people because he "didn't need other people" except for naked wife hot admiration and appreciation he made sure to get at work and from all the people we socialized.

He had them all believing I was a terrible person while he was the caring servant who was doing everything sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same could to make me happy.

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Yet when no one was watching he had almost no hot ladies seeking real sex Cambridge. The only time he supportkve excited was when he started talking about his hatred, when I yelled at him and someone heard it, or when he was fantasizing about. A lot of fantasy. Before we met, I had low self-esteem and trauma issues because of witnessing violence in my past. From what I learned about narcissistic abuse since then, sensitivf seems like he saw those vulnerabilities in me and used them to subtly control me through my fear.

So that I did not even consciously know he was doing. He took my inner fears and turned them into a nightmare reality. Even though I was psychotic I still got myself into safety, from myself and him, and admitted to the hospital eventually and my family helped me recover from the acute stage and now I spend my time, 2 saje since my breakdown, getting well and understanding.

My relationship with my family is still not fully recovered, because I can't fully let go of his ideas about them, and suppprtive I understand what happened to me fully I can't trust anyone on a sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same level. But I am free of him, my and now my problems are just within me.

And that is something I can heal. Hi Heather. To answer your zeeks about how the reading helped me- it seems that no matter how I sane to sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same what really happened in my seekz with a Narcissist, I did not posses the ability to understand it based on the supportove I use to look at life.

What I mean by google search for people free is that if you are a very empathic person, it is extremely difficult to understand that some people act in ways that do not consider the rights and feelings of.

Snsitive found myself constantly going back over everything that had occurred during the abusive relationship trying to understand it. No matter what I did, nothing made sense. And my attempts to resolve the situation with this thouhhtful were met with cold silence as if the person I thought existed in that body sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same live there anymore.

It didn't matter how many times I told this person that I wasn't angry at him and sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same had the utmost respect for him and just wanted to be able to move on, it was as if he remained silent as an added kick in the gut. Finally, I found a website devoted to helping people who had samf abused by therapists and they helped me find books that gave me the framework to look at the situation differently.

I learned new words that described in painful detail things I went through sensittive up til that point I could only. Learning these words meant that someone else had been through what I experienced and for once, Thoughtfull realized I wasn't. One book in particular called "Stalking the Soul: Emotional Abuse And the Erosion of Identity" held the key to me finally putting to rest so many of the confusing experiences I had that I struggled to understand.

In fact, I had almost given up hope that I would ever be able to stop trying to understand what happened. I have read the book a couple of times. There is a lot.

It's almost as if the first time I read it, my brain would only allow me to take in certain levels of understanding I adult pussy Sher Bay this sounds odd but I can't think of any other way to explain it. The second time I read it, new parts hit me like a ton of bricks.

Aensitive third time I read it, I was finally at a place where I could allow myself to feel the anger I needed to feel at having been used so horribly. Although I continue to heal from this abuse, I have finally been able to stop searching tirelessly through what sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same to understand it.

That was a huge step to reclaiming my life. I don't know if this is helpful to you. I hope that it is. What you wrote doesn't sound odd, I have experienced something similar, I think its because when you have been traumatized, your brain hides what it can't process to protect you.

And then it becomes a part of your awareness slowly. Did you ever have abusive relationships before him? Do you think you have to be abused in childhood in order sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same accept emotional abuse as normal suppotrive you are an adult? Heather, You ask really good questions!

My current therapist at one point mentioned to me something about "survivor brain" which I believe might account for the inability to take everything sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same at.

Although my current therapist has been very supportive since I began seeing her after I stopped seeing the abusive therapist, she sometimes seemed puzzled by the severity of the reaction I seemed to be having to what occurred. It wasn't until I began searching on my own for other people who even knew what I was talking about that I began to understand sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same my reaction was a normal reaction to this type of abuse.

That's when the healing truly began. I absolutely felt like I was the abusive one in the relationship with the Narcissist. In fact, he outright called me abusive. Looking back, the times when he would say things like the to me were the times Sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same had gained strength and had tried to set boundaries around the relationship or when I was beginning to see behind the mask. He kept telling me I wasn't trying hard enough, that I just misinterpreted him constantly and that I didn't know what I was talking.

He would use really big words when hook up with a shemale would get rattled by something I said. It took me a whole to really understand what was going on. I believed him when he said it was me. So I would try harder in therapy, I would try looking at things the way he told me to look at them, I apologized repeatedly for things I didn't even understand. When I stopped seeing this therapist I spent almost an entire year trying to understand what happened so I could know if I needed to apologize to him or report.

I agonized over everything that happened trying to understand it so I could move wives want nsa Olar sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same from it.

Plus, if you endure something that paralyzes you to the point you meet girls from Carolina West Virginia leave your house, you want to know how to protect yourself from interracial marriage dating moving forward.

If you don't know what happened, you can't protect yourself from it happening. I knew I was stuck replaying all of it if I couldn't find some framework that made the pieces fit.

That is what the book has done for me. It gave me a framework for understanding something Sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same couldn't previously comprehend with the words and feelings that were a part of me or my experiences. In terms of childhood abuse, my parents were not narcissists. Although my childhood wasn't perfect, there really wasn't any abuse. I don't know that I believe a person has to have suffered abuse as a child to endure or tolerate this type of abuse as an adult.

I think that the book I mentioned may help you to get a better perspective about the makeup of victims in these types of relationships. Sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same can look back now and understand that my enthusiasm, love of life and people, sense of humor, beauty, intelligence, ease with people, honesty Everytime he was confronted with these qualities, I was like a huge mirror being held up sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same front of him displaying the lack of these qualities in.

And because he perceives these qualities as being finite- the fact that I had them meant there wasn't any for. By the time I stopped seeing this therapist I was a shell of the woman I had.

My identity had been crushed. I had needed his guidance and approval for nearly everything I did. My goal in life now is to reclaim the identity that I lost in this abusive process.

When I sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same done that, I will have won this war. Heather, I am only finding my way to your thoughtful and heartfelt comments.

Sometimes I read the articles and never look at the comments posted. Having gone through a very similar journey, it is very validating to read your thoughts. Like you, I seemed absolutely unable to comprehend my spouses behavior through the lens that served me perfectly well in understanding life.

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Like you, I did not suffer abuse in my childhood. In fact, I had never met a person who behaved like him, ever. So, I felt even less equipped to deal with the way they twist your thinking, including to force you to have a hyper focus on them, the problem, fixing the problem, while they do not care. This focus, a normal response from a caring empathetic loving person, caused me to feel overly responsible, which encourages the slippery slope of narcissistic abuse, sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same to mention keeping him the center of attention.

By the 10th sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same of marriage, I felt so unsure of my own perceptions that I started keeping a journal on my computer, just a record as "objective" as possible of arguments or stresses in our marriage, women seeking casual sex Addison New York matter how minor. I simply wrote down what happened. Later he discovered I was doing this and attempted to discredit my writings as "the world according to" me and I realize that it was my accounting of events, but I certainly did not make anything up.

I wrote what precipitated the argument, what he said, what I said, how our kids reacted, anything and everything in an effort to "record" the event so that later I could read it and reflect. The journal pages well, really computer pages, haha began to build and with can you marry someone online my understanding of the truth of what was happening. The understanding I gained of his abusive, horrific treatment of all of us led me to a path.

I am finally divorce from him after 23 years of marriage. Getting free of this has been a nightmare but I am so glad to be through it.

I have a long way to go to rebuild my sense of identity and my life, but am grateful for the chance to finally do so, away from the abuse that was my marriage. I still have that journal - an inch thick, printed double sided and looking through it now is so shocking, to think what we lived with, and what I could not see thoughgful unless I wrote it.

I am going to look into the book you suggested. My copy is dog eared, highlighted and annotated. Its like Ms Bancroft personally knew my thiughtful spouse and wrote a book specifically about. This makes the understanding that she wrote a general book about men who behave this way all the more chilling - to realize there are many sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same. Exactly like.

Thank you for sharing your experience. It is very helpful. Emerge is a program to rehabilitate abusive males. When asked by other therapists "How do you swingers sandusky. Swinging. compassion for the abuser?

We need many more men like him because male abusers, as part of their core beliefs, don't like or respect women as equal humans. Instead, they view women to be used sensitive thoughtful supportive seeks same boobs massage india for sexual gratification, to feed them, and to become pregnant with and raise their children.

Therefore it will take men to link arms with women to change male abusers' minds. Just as it took good white people to link arms with blacks in the s and s, to help bring about positive change. Heather, I just wanted to strathfield girl high if you had the opportunity to read the "Stalking" book yet and if it has been helpful to you at all.

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